Reply to Sloman
Leon and I have discussed this theory at length, and I agree with
Leon's stress on the clinical importance
of the termination of submission and
yielding - we have discussed various situations in which an
individual wants to submit but cannot
for some reason; for instance, a
dominant mother prevents a wife from
submitting to her husband in certain matters. In this situation the agonistic
encounter between wife and husband
continues and the involuntary yielding of depression may supervene.
The terminology is
difficult and I think the term "submissive responses" may be ambiguous. I prefer to use the term
yielding for all losing behaviour,
regardless of whether it is acute or chronic, oriented towards escape or submission, or whether it is
voluntary or involuntary. By involuntary
I mean outside of conscious control, like depression or hero worship or the slavery of love. By voluntary
I mean that the decision to yield is
taken in full awareness, balancing those pros and cons which are available to the conscious mind.
Unfortunately voluntary also has the
meaning of "willing", and some acts of voluntary yielding may
be very "unwilling". I think
the potential semantic confusion is such as to
justify a couple of examples.
Say I am queuing for a cup
of tea at the station buffet. Someone barges
in front of me. I look at him and see that he is a loutish creature,
rude, ill-mannered, but unfortunately
larger than me. I yield and allow him to
precede me. This is voluntary yielding, even though I was unwilling
to yield because of my pride (and I may
be in a hurry). I am unlikely to have
made any submission signals apart from drawing back. The episode leaves
me feeling hurt and angry and put down.
On another occasion while I am standing
in the queue, the King comes in, obviously wanting a cup of tea. I bow to him,
offer him my place, possibly even offer to pay for his tea
(knowing the Royals seldom carry loose change). This is
"willing" voluntary yielding,
and I have made submission signals which have been accepted. The episode leaves me feeling happy
and boosted, with something to tell my
wife proudly when I get home. Alongside these acute voluntary forms of yielding, it is possible that there
are involuntary varieties. For instance, the sight of the large lout might
induce a panic attack in me, in which I
become incapable of opposing him; or he might knock me out. In the case of the
King, I might be so overwhelmed by his majesty that I fainted, thus giving up my place by default.
But I do not think these acute
involuntary states of yielding are of importance as ultimate causes of psychopathology. I use them merely to
illustrate the terminology. I submit to
the lout by withdrawing, and to the king by bowing; submission in this sense is a conscious, directed act.
However, when I yield to the lout with
panic and to the king with paralysing awe, I am using types of behaviour which should not be called
submission, and in the absence of a
better label I suggest "acute involuntary yielding."
The difference between
voluntary and involuntary becomes important when we come to chronic (or subacute) yielding.
Let me give another example, and since I
have introduced royalty as an extreme example of high RHP, let us continue with royalty (Leon's "alpha
individual, who is accustomed to
dominate"), but this time in the role of yielder. The speech by the
King in Shakespeare's Richard 11 must be
the greatest yielding speech ever
pronounced. It is so majestic that I beg Russell's indulgence in
quoting it in full:
What must the king do now?
Must he submit?
The king shall do it: must he
be deposed?
The king shall be contented:
must he lose
The name of king? o'God's
name, let it go.
I'll give my jewels for a set of beads,
My gorgeous palace for a hermitage
My gay apparel for an almsman's gown,
My figur'd goblets for a dish of wood,
My sceptre for a palmer's walking staff,
My subjects for a pair of carved saints,
And my large kingdom for a little grave.
A little, little grave, an obscure grave;
Or I'll be buried in the king's highway,
Some way of common trade, where subjects' feet
May hourly trample on their sovereign's head;
For on my heart they tread now whilst I live;
And buried once, why not upon my head?
According to my terminology, this is subacute voluntary yielding.
The King does not want to yield, but he
sees that he has no other choice, and he
makes the decision in full consciousness. He is being pushed out of
the kingly role, unwillingly. The same
act of yielding could have come into one
of the other categories of yielding, without altering the overall effect (except how the King felt about it).
It could have been willing voluntary
yielding, for instance if the King had got bored with being king and wanted to devote himself to collecting
stamps; he could have opted willingly
out of the kingly role. Or it could have been chronic involuntary yielding which I have labelled
depressive yielding: in this case the King would have become unwell, would
have been seen to be not himself,
afflicted with all sorts of symptoms, prematurely aged and clearly unfit to govern. Perhaps a regent would have
been appointed, or he would have said,
"I am much too ill to continue as King" and then abdicated. These
three ways of exiting from the kingly role leave the ex-king feeling very different. In one, he is a resentful
ex-king; in the second, he is a
happy stamp collector; in the
third, he is a sick man.
I hope these examples help
to illustrate the ways that yielding may be
related to psychopathology; and
even more important, that there may be an
interaction between type of yielding and the presence or absence of psychopathology. If one had been the deposed
King's physician, one might have been
able to influence the outcome. One could have said, "Here, your majesty, take this nostrum, we'll soon have
you fit and back on the throne",
thus fuelling his unrealistic aspiration to make a come-back. Or one could have said, "I'm afraid the
prognosis is not good, your majesty, and
the worry about regaining the throne is impeding your recovery; you
should seriously consider abdication." If the king then abdicates, the pressure of his people treading on his heart
is removed (along with pressure from
competitors) and, the involuntary depressive yielding being no longer required to keep him out of the
kingly role, he may recover and become a
happy ex-king. Note the paradox that giving a bad prognosis improves the prognosis, whereas giving a good
prognosis tends to perpetuate the
condition.
In an attempt to clarify
matters, I offer the following tentative
classification of yielding behaviour:
insert figures
here
By voluntary and
involuntary, I mean the sort of difference in brain level which must exist, in the realm of
temperature control, between turning on
the central heating and shivering. The decisions to shiver or turn on the central heating are clearly made
at different brain levels, even if we do
not know exactly what those levels are. The information used in coming to the decision is different in the
two cases. In the rational evaluation of
temperature, made in order to decide about switching on the central heating, information from weather
forecasts and thermometers may be taken
into account, but this information has no direct effect on the decision to shiver. Conversely, information
about body temperature may affect the
onset of shivering but not be available in making a decision about central heating. With regard to
yielding, we do not know how much of the
information which is used to make a rational decision of submitting is also available for the evaluation of relative
RHP which may lead to involuntary
yielding, or whether certain information may be used for the latter but not for the former. Information at
a higher logical level, concerning
fighting in general (such as rules against fighting), as opposed to information about this particular fight,
might affect a rational decision to
submit but have no influence on involuntary yielding. And it is possible that information at a somatic
level (such as debility following a
viral infection) might play a part in determining involuntary yielding but not be available for a decision about
submitting.
The voluntary act of turning
on the central heating may be willing or
unwilling: I may be showing off
my new central heating system to loved
ones whom I want to keep warm; on
the other hand, I may have been coerced
into turning on a system which I may believe to be too expensive,
harmful
to health, or unnecessary. In the latter case I might switch it off
when no one was looking, and this might
lead to shivering, in the way that
incomplete yielding may lead to depression. It does not make sense to
talk about willing or unwilling
shivering; no one likes to shiver in the
way that no one likes to be depressed.
I think a lot more needs to
be said about partial, incomplete and
blocked submission, and the ways that these may predispose clinically
to depressed states. In some cases
submission may be blocked from outside, by
social rules or by a third party;
and in others it may be blocked from
inside the individual, by pride, scruples or the anger of which
Leon speaks. At the moment there is a
lot of knowledge about sub-total forms of
submission, but it is in the minds not of psychologists but of
priests, particularly those who hear
confessions and who are expert at detecting
when the penitent is holding some tiny little something back from his
total submission to God. I think a
total, complete voluntary submission to a
higher power may pre-empt the involuntary yielding of depression, even
if the higher power was outside the
original conflict (as in the case of the
alcoholic submitting to the AA group). This sort of option needs to
be talked about clinically, and that is
why I think we should reserve the use of
the term submission for voluntary acts. Does the patient choose to submit, or does he choose to spare his pride
and risk the involuntary yielding of
depression? Of course, involuntary yielding
can also be pre- empted by victory. And the sensible person avoids agonistic
confrontation altogether and takes
Michael Chance's advice to stay in the hedonic mode.